Are Men Avoiding Women
December 13th, 2015 at 11:38:02 AM permalink | |
Evenbob Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 146 Posts: 25011 |
What they want and what they settle for are two different things. They don't really want what they think they want. They may think they want an alpha, but what they prefer is a guy they can push around, who will put up with their crap, tolerate their nonsense, and not get upset with them too often. They don't respect a guy like that, but an alpha would never put up with their crap and they know it. So they settle. If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose. |
December 13th, 2015 at 12:35:21 PM permalink | |
Wizard Administrator Member since: Oct 23, 2012 Threads: 239 Posts: 6095 |
I think they truly want an alpha but they all can't have one. Maybe one guy in ten is a natural alpha. The other nine women who don't find one settle for a nice guy to push around and/or cheat with an alpha. Knowledge is Good -- Emil Faber |
December 13th, 2015 at 1:58:58 PM permalink | |
AZDuffman Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 135 Posts: 18204 |
The key seems to be that you need not be the minority alpha but you had better be a beta and not an omega. Not enough alphas to go around, but betas are still sure of themselves. Plus you need to have some manly skills and be able to get things done. I've had nights at the craps table where the women were just amazed at how I could just memorize all the needed stuff but also keep over hald a dozen people in control for two hours. Know how their car works and you can be as good as the alpha. Fix or build what they cannot. IOW, bring something to the table. OTOH, an omega brings nothing and can be dominated at every turn. Nothing is attractive about this. The President is a fink. |
December 13th, 2015 at 2:12:53 PM permalink | |
petroglyph Member since: Aug 3, 2014 Threads: 25 Posts: 6227 |
Everybody wants a 10 without the attitude. I think the social pact is broken in the west. Nice guys/gals get crapped on when that is exactly what society needs is Beta's and Omega's, Alpha's are only good to look at, they are not likely to stay faithful in marriage, just to many options and offers. Women, like men want wild passion, Alpha males are uncontrollable and soon move on. Obviously there can be fatherless children left behind, and every time the woman gives herself away and the man leaves, the more bitter and less desirable she is, creating a nasty feedback loop. The women get meaner and uglier every day. Most of the kids from those encounters will never have a good male roll model in their lives [for very long] as the good salt of the earth beta males can't stand the ugliness and they to move on. So now we have [in the west] a society that this has played out on millions of times. We have young women who think they rate an alpha and good young beta males not entering the marriage paradigm, and that makes the women angry also. Young men have a constant stream of porn 24/7 that exposes any manner of sexual preference and have seen the suffering by friends already paying child support and alimony for what seems life. Why buy into that? Legalize prostitution in all states, save lives, marriages, slow crime, and it's good for the economy, and all sexes. Marriage in most cases has turned into a scam. When women figure out a guy can save millions of dollars over a lifetime and have his needs fulfilled sexually by a young hot new woman every week, the sooner they will drop this bull crap of "I'm all that", and trading a miniscule amount of sex for a lifetime of financial support. Producing a child shouldn't be a career goal or retirement plan, for a little sex. Sex in a relationship should not be a tool or a weapon. The last official act of any government is to loot the treasury. GW |
December 13th, 2015 at 2:20:03 PM permalink | |
Evenbob Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 146 Posts: 25011 |
Most women are in competition with their husbands, that's why you see it on sitcoms. Every married couple relates to it. They can't be in competition with an alpha, so they never last with one. Johnny Carson was an alpha, he was married 6 times. Same with Cary Grant. People like John Wayne and Chuck Heston had long marriages, but they said the secret was never argue with your wife about anything. Do what you want and they get over it or they don't. You'd think Sinatra was an alpha, but he was really just a bully. He was a big crybaby where women were concerned. That's why he preferred hookers, he didn't get along with women all that well. He always said he wasn't paying them for sex, he could get that anywhere for nothing. He said he was paying a hooker to leave, a luxury you don't get with casual sex or a GF. If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose. |
December 13th, 2015 at 2:25:10 PM permalink | |
AZDuffman Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 135 Posts: 18204 |
Part of what has happened in the west is feminism has made many women confused about life. Fact is many women would rather be able to raise the kids and provide the "home" for the family. But around the mid-1960s the women who did not want this started to convince the rest that they were somehow "wasting" their lives if they "stayed home and baked cookies." So many went to work and put off the kids. Then they wondered why they were not happier like they were "supposed" to be. Doesn't help much when popular culture shows an idealized version of work on TV and movies and when you get to work it is not like this. Meanwhile, the guys kept getting kicked to the curb. They were not needed, just a healthy hunk of their paychecks. More and more guys see the way a guy can be shaken down by the court system and all of the sudden other options look better. The current "degenderization" that is being pushed on society will make this situation even worse. The President is a fink. |
December 13th, 2015 at 2:49:54 PM permalink | |
petroglyph Member since: Aug 3, 2014 Threads: 25 Posts: 6227 |
Whether or not people want to acknowledge this truth or not, there is an undeniable truth in there. Take the morality, prejudice, religion, stigma and every other false directive out of the equation and the truth is, people have always had sex. That is a fact, and it is normal. If the anti-abortionists really want to cut down on abortions, the single biggest thing they could do is legalize prostitution. It would save millions of fetus's from being destroyed, and save tons of sorrow and grief. But the power to get pregnant and gain control is just to valuable to the moral authority's and women. I think that saving it until marriage is a huge mistake. People should live together and try everything for two years before marriage, and there wouldn't be so many painful surprises, abortions, unwanted children, fatherless children with no direction or discipline. It is time to stop the lies. The last official act of any government is to loot the treasury. GW |
December 13th, 2015 at 2:59:59 PM permalink | |
rxwine Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 189 Posts: 18755 |
See, I don't think any of it is that predictable. Each generation comes in with different ideas and new trends. A lot of it is just a variation of stuff which came before. Young people especially are very good at going the opposite of what you expect. You believe in an invisible god, and dismiss people who say they are trans? Really? |
December 13th, 2015 at 3:00:11 PM permalink | |
AZDuffman Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 135 Posts: 18204 |
While neither is a big issue to me, I really do not see the connection to legalized prostitution and fewer abortions. The President is a fink. |
December 13th, 2015 at 3:01:21 PM permalink | |
Evenbob Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 146 Posts: 25011 |
All Frank wanted from women is sex. He spent the prime years of his life, mostly from 35-50, without being married. More like 37-50. He was married to Ava till the mid 50's, but they were separated for years before that. Frank didn't pall around with women, he loved hanging out with his male friends. All he wanted from a woman is sex. I bet there are more men like Frank than not.. If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose. |