Raised without Gender
July 27th, 2017 at 10:34:18 AM permalink | |
AZDuffman Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 135 Posts: 18136 |
I had a woman worked for me, and don't ask how it came up even if I could remember, she said she knows of no woman who wanted to see two guys getting it on. She was adamant. The President is a fink. |
July 28th, 2017 at 2:12:51 AM permalink | |
Pacomartin Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 1068 Posts: 12569 |
I think in terms of sex the term "no one" is meaningless. A man can get turned on just by looking at a body part in isolation. That's not as common for women. Probably there are lesbian images for men's enjoyment that go back to the 19th century. Certainly by the 1940's Gwendoline was very popular But younger women are much more apt to watch gay porn. |
July 28th, 2017 at 5:44:56 AM permalink | |
odiousgambit Member since: Oct 28, 2012 Threads: 154 Posts: 5052 | evidently if women lived long enough, eventually just as many would be viewing the male gay porn as the men in their age group!! I think actually the numerators are starting to equal the denominators as the latter get to be pretty small. Or something like that I'm Still Standing, Yeah, Yeah, Yeah [it's an old guy chant for me] |
July 28th, 2017 at 7:38:37 AM permalink | |
odiousgambit Member since: Oct 28, 2012 Threads: 154 Posts: 5052 | I have a niece that married into a family with a girl who decided to change into a male persona as she entered college; hormone treatments and all that. When I met her when she was a younger teenager, she seemed normal enough except physically she was not an attractive girl, too big-boned and a bit overweight. Meeting her later as an older teenager, she did exhibit male personality traits, I think she was well on her way to deciding her gender was misplaced. It is just natural to wonder if the new way this is approached by the schools etc., however much that was an influence, was something I was totally in support of or not. Hearing about the transition decision, I ran into the thinking that we as a society do want less suicides with these persons. Naturally I did not want to say or think I did not care about that. But now that is being brought into question? Searching for that a bit, there seem to be two camps who are sparring with each other. https://www.google.com/search?site=&source=hp&q=suicide+rate+sex+change&oq=suicides+sex+change&gs_l=psy-ab.1.1.0i22i30k1l2.555.5013.0.11554.20.13.0.0.0.0.1136.1136.7-1.1.0....0...1.1.64.psy-ab..19.1.1135.0.FN7Q4rhE7Bo I'm Still Standing, Yeah, Yeah, Yeah [it's an old guy chant for me] |
July 28th, 2017 at 10:06:48 AM permalink | |
rxwine Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 188 Posts: 18629 |
A transformation wouldn't address societies reaction, only personal desires. If society doesn't react well to the idea, it wouldn't matter pre or post what the individual does. I think it still gets into acceptance issue. In a place where the general acceptance would be low or absent, becoming more visible doesn't automatically improve that situation. Kinda like me wearing a Darwin fish t-shirt to a Creationist gathering. You believe in an invisible god, and dismiss people who say they are trans? Really? |
July 28th, 2017 at 2:35:19 PM permalink | |
Face Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 61 Posts: 3941 | This seems like one of those "answers to a question not asked". Stop f#$%ing with your kids. Simply provide. Stop thinking there's a "right" and a "wrong" and just freaking "do". Sure, my kid's all boy. He's obsessed with fishing, and when he's not doing that he's flopping other kids, playing with Matchbox, or shooting people online. My choice? Not even close. I provided those experiences and that's what he chose. I also sing to him, and not just some Dan Tyminski tune about being done for a murder he didn't commit. I sing Sinatra. Musicals. I'll prance about the house like Julie Andrews belting out whatever the hell I feel like. We've watched "Beauty and the Beast" more than "Cars", and by a damn large margin. Just quit it. Kids aren't f#$%ed up because they're confused by gender. They get f#$%ed up when you act like their feelings are "wrong". Course, I'm straight and a man, so I might be expecting change from those $0.02. Be bold and risk defeat, or be cautious and encourage it. |
July 28th, 2017 at 5:35:34 PM permalink | |
Evenbob Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 146 Posts: 25010 |
So, we know where the real problem lies.. If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose. |
July 29th, 2017 at 1:43:21 PM permalink | |
Pacomartin Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 1068 Posts: 12569 |
You sound like a perfectly sensible father to me that's not afraid to teach show tunes to his son. It seems to me that you don't have to dress your little boy like a cowboy, but this idea of keeping his gender a state secret is a bit much. When Sasha was born, his parents simply referred to him as ‘the infant’ and kept his sex a secret from all but a few close friends and relatives. His gender has only been revealed because he started school recently. Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2090169/Sasha-Laxton-Gender-neutral-childs-reaction-mothers-questions-sex.html#ixzz4oFsgxt67 Follow us: @MailOnline on Twitter | DailyMail on Facebook |
July 29th, 2017 at 2:46:24 PM permalink | |
rxwine Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 188 Posts: 18629 | If you focus on what people usually cite as problems created by the parents, not sure this is a big one. I would cite below: Maybe it fits the first one, but would really have to see the long term results. No defined boundries/ Excessive discipline. Cruelty or abuse, physical or mental Inattention Over attention Not enough discipline What am I missing -- most of that covers what I know about children that grow up with problems due to parenting. I don't think kids need to grow up in a perfect mold of every other kid around. You believe in an invisible god, and dismiss people who say they are trans? Really? |