Women Unhated
April 23rd, 2018 at 4:21:44 PM permalink | |
odiousgambit Member since: Oct 28, 2012 Threads: 154 Posts: 5105 |
Really? I can't speak for what others have posted here, but I felt my original post was different but honest. To me, if you like women, you like what they are. They have a certain 'body language' way of communicating that I find charming, and just plain interesting to observe. If you don't like all that, then I would say you don't like women. Now, I did go on to describe what this young woman did, and I suppose you might feel I was making fun of her. That was not my intention. I'm Still Standing, Yeah, Yeah, Yeah [it's an old guy chant for me] |
April 23rd, 2018 at 4:27:57 PM permalink | |
rxwine Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 189 Posts: 18762 |
Sorry for the confusion. EB is posting the same women negative POV in both threads. I don't see what in his posts here are any different. You believe in an invisible god, and dismiss people who say they are trans? Really? |
April 23rd, 2018 at 4:38:50 PM permalink | |
Evenbob Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 146 Posts: 25011 |
Not surprising.. Do you even know what we're talking about? If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose. |
April 24th, 2018 at 2:18:07 AM permalink | |
odiousgambit Member since: Oct 28, 2012 Threads: 154 Posts: 5105 | Have you ever seen "Defending the Caveman" ? That's an example of pointing out sex characteristics without hate. In fact just the other day I was reminded of the part where he reminds us of the phenomenon of getting your 'stuff' banished to the basement or the garage. I was dealing with something that my wife was fussing about and for the life of me I couldnt figure out what was bothering her about it - then I realized it just needed to go in the basement and everything would be fine. There is some kind of instinctive notion about what is proper to be seen in the home and what is not that is a dark science for men I think. Now, a reader might shake his head at what I wrote there and think that was hateful. Perhaps that person does hate this characteristic about women, or hates to see generalizations. But as the Caveman show reveals, some of these things you can marvel at without disdain. I'm Still Standing, Yeah, Yeah, Yeah [it's an old guy chant for me] |
April 24th, 2018 at 2:38:18 AM permalink | |
AZDuffman Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 135 Posts: 18210 |
Wives get to be in total control of what is seen in the home. Men will always be banished to the worst parts, basement, garage, or attic. Even there the wife will only grudgingly let him have the least desireable spot in the house. She would rather not see the stuff he likes at all if she dislikes it. Maybe he gets a shelf or wall for something she approves of. I discussed it with an older guy when I was younger at the office. He shook his head and told me that if and when I got married I would learn. Said you can fight about it but sooner or later you just give up the fight about it and let her do whatever she wants with the house as it is a far bigger thing for her than it is for you. Single guys thinking out there thinking about proposing, first put all the stuff you like in the basement and see how it looks. See how you like hanging there, as that is where you will end up sooner or later. The President is a fink. |
April 24th, 2018 at 10:52:28 AM permalink | |
petroglyph Member since: Aug 3, 2014 Threads: 25 Posts: 6227 | A friend of mine from Kodiak was retiring the next year, older gentleman. What he did a year early was go down to Oklahoma and bought a hundred acres, and built a nice big shop, then came back to work. The way he figured it is, if he had built the house first, his wife could care less if he ever had a shop. He had the shop, so he set about building the home once he retired while they stayed on the property in an rv. Nice place, good thinking. The last official act of any government is to loot the treasury. GW |
April 24th, 2018 at 11:26:38 AM permalink | |
Evenbob Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 146 Posts: 25011 |
Back in my antique days, I saw this many times. I would go to an old collectors house and he would be set up in the basement. Cameras, knives, radios, guns. Some would tell me their wife hadn't been down there in years. Saw a guy who had toys on American Pickers who said his wife had never been in the basement that he knew of. One old guy died and was barely gone a week before the old lady sold everything in the basement and made it look like he was never there. The wives mostly resent that men do this, have a place of their own that they have no control over. If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose. |
April 24th, 2018 at 12:12:00 PM permalink | |
AZDuffman Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 135 Posts: 18210 |
My grandfather was a big CB guy in the 1970s. He more had the heart of a ham operator as he kept meticulous records of who he talked to and when. Then he got out of it. I just now found out it was my grandmother hated he spent all night on the radio. It is either control or they cannot stand divided attention away from them. The President is a fink. |
April 24th, 2018 at 12:30:38 PM permalink | |
Evenbob Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 146 Posts: 25011 |
It's control, women are basically unhappy so they try and control everything around them. I have a perfect marriage because my wife and I live in separate houses. We rarely even see each other. This is perfect for her, she has total control over her house and she loves that. She hasn't been in my house in 10 years, has no idea how I live and doesn't care because she doesn't have to see it. If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose. |
April 24th, 2018 at 12:40:52 PM permalink | |
petroglyph Member since: Aug 3, 2014 Threads: 25 Posts: 6227 | I think it is insecurity, and I don't believe it can be cured. I tried, but in the end, there was just no way I could compete with something super imposed in her subconscious, that no matter what there would come a day, that her husband [me] would stray. It is what partially killed it. Coming home after work, always thought guilty. Hell of a way to start the evening, or the week end, with the "side eye". Her searching for lip stick stains or perfume transfer, or phone numbers. No mas. I, like 38% of males, would not leave because of the children. I always like in when I hear older people [usually women] who say, "how could he leave her after all those years]. I wonder how he was able to stay. The last official act of any government is to loot the treasury. GW |