I need you to come into work this weekend

April 12th, 2019 at 9:43:42 AM permalink
Evenbob
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The elderly owner is on his way out,
health wise. You might make it out
before him, but just barely. The
stress is killing him, literally. Why
go in Monday, why waste a 4 hour
commute. Just send him an adios
email..
If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose.
April 13th, 2019 at 6:19:34 AM permalink
SOOPOO
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Remind me again.....

Where are you living now? Are you generally happy with where you live now? Do you rent or own?

You said you have no savings, but do you have unavailable retirement savings? Or really no net worth?
April 13th, 2019 at 6:46:32 AM permalink
aceofspades
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Quote: SOOPOO
Remind me again.....

Where are you living now? Are you generally happy with where you live now? Do you rent or own?

You said you have no savings, but do you have unavailable retirement savings? Or really no net worth?


I live on Long Island and own my condo

Nothing - it's all gone (we all know the story by now)
April 13th, 2019 at 9:45:49 AM permalink
Evenbob
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Quote: aceofspades
I live on Long Island and own my condo


So you would have to sell your condo,
move to NJ in a rental, on a flimsy
deal that will collapse before it barely
begins? Why would you even think
about it. Get out, your boss sounds like
he's on his last legs anyway and then
you're really screwed.
If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose.
April 13th, 2019 at 11:59:48 AM permalink
SOOPOO
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Quote: aceofspades
I live on Long Island and own my condo

Nothing - it's all gone (we all know the story by now)


I don't know your story..... If I did I forgot! I guess if I were you I'd try and find something acceptable on Long Island. Look east..... that way you would be going opposite of rush hour and commute would be mitigated. If you have a good reputation I can't imagine it will be that difficult to find an acceptable job, perhaps not a dream job, but not a nightmare job like you have now.
April 13th, 2019 at 12:02:52 PM permalink
Evenbob
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Quote: SOOPOO
I don't know your story..... If I did I forgot! .


Why does it matter, it was years
ago. I certainly wouldn't sell
my condo for a job, find a job
that suits your present location.
If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose.
April 13th, 2019 at 2:53:03 PM permalink
aceofspades
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Quote: SOOPOO
I don't know your story..... If I did I forgot! I guess if I were you I'd try and find something acceptable on Long Island. Look east..... that way you would be going opposite of rush hour and commute would be mitigated. If you have a good reputation I can't imagine it will be that difficult to find an acceptable job, perhaps not a dream job, but not a nightmare job like you have now.


Quote: Evenbob
Why does it matter, it was years
ago. I certainly wouldn't sell
my condo for a job, find a job
that suits your present location.



Not much east of me for law firms other than mom and pop shops

I am talking with the Owner Monday and if I can get the 7% raise and ability to work from home one day per week I will be very happy
April 13th, 2019 at 2:59:36 PM permalink
Evenbob
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Quote: aceofspades
I will be very happy


So you'll put up happily with ProtoPrick's
constant BS 4 days a week? No you won't.
If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose.
April 13th, 2019 at 9:10:49 PM permalink
DRich
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Quote: Evenbob
Why does it matter, it was years
ago. I certainly wouldn't sell
my condo for a job, find a job
that suits your present location.


I vowed many years ago to never have a commute to work over 15 minutes each way. I would definitely buy closer to my office.
At my age a Life In Prison sentence is not much of a detrrent.
April 14th, 2019 at 2:01:17 AM permalink
aceofspades
Member since: Oct 24, 2012
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Quote: Evenbob
So you'll put up happily with ProtoPrick's
constant BS 4 days a week? No you won't.


I believe I posted previously that the Owner, as part of his pitch to have me stay, assured me I would not have to work with either protege or co-counsel - and, neither of them even looked in my direction this week