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July 18th, 2013 at 3:46:07 PM permalink

AZDuffman

Member since: Oct 24, 2012
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Quote: Evenbob
The worst part was it was all planned. The woman
was 25 and a knockout. She picked a 21 year old
kid who's dad owned a construction company. She
screwed the kids socks off (sexually) till he couldn't
see straight and he married her and she immediately
talked him into the adoption and divorced him a
year later. She planned all of it, she knew that in IN
a father is obligated to pay till the kid is out of
college. And of course the 21 year old ended up a
big muckety muck in his dads company. so he had
to pay, no way out of it. Charming story.

A damn shame, but I have to say you play with matches you get burned.

The President is a fink.

July 18th, 2013 at 5:46:16 PM permalink
Fleastiff Member since: Oct 27, 2012 Threads: 62 Posts: 7831	Some women have cash registers rather than hearts ... and a courtroom is the same as a bedroom... a place to win. Of course it is planned in advance, most fine victories are!

July 19th, 2013 at 2:15:38 AM permalink

1nickelmiracle

Member since: Mar 5, 2013
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Posts: 623

Quote: aceofspades
Indeed - and the law supports this in NY, that is why this case was an aberration. A guy could be told he is the father when things are going swimmingly with his best girl. He believes her, doesn't question it by seeking a DNA test. A year later, they get into an argument, she yells out - "He/She's not yours!" - they breakup, she seeks child support - he says it's not mine - the Court says, too late for a DNA test as you have been acting as the father - so, even if you really aren't the father, the State has an interest in "someone/anyone" supporting this child other than the State so, thanks for playing, you owe $xxx per month in child support until the child, that may or may not actually be yours, is 21 (oh yeah, and your share of health care costs and child care costs)!

This is big when you consider the common knowledge gained from genetic testing of married couples, where 10% of tested babies cannot know their "fathers", because it's not the husband's. Think 1/10 of us reading this here don't know who are dads really are. 10% odds within multiple generations means nobody really knows their ethnic/racial composition like they think they do, if they scientifically existed in the first place that is.

July 19th, 2013 at 2:35:16 AM permalink
Fleastiff Member since: Oct 27, 2012 Threads: 62 Posts: 7831	This statement about ten percent is unclear.

July 19th, 2013 at 10:52:56 AM permalink

odiousgambit

Member since: Oct 28, 2012
Threads: 154
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Quote: Evenbob
The worst part was it was all planned...

Quote: Evenbob
But how many women are like this, you must
see some unbelievable crap all the time.

If a guy can catch his wife/significant-other in a candid mood, he might be able to get her to admit she has to respect what that woman did to get support for herself and her child. I can think of one such jaw-dropper coming from the mouth of mine about a woman she otherwise despises.

I'm Still Standing, Yeah, Yeah, Yeah [it's an old guy chant for me]

July 19th, 2013 at 12:16:27 PM permalink
aceofspades Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 83 Posts: 2019	Quote: odiousgambit If a guy can catch his wife/significant-other in a candid mood, he might be able to get her to admit she has to respect what that woman did to get support for herself and her child. I can think of one such jaw-dropper coming from the mouth of mine about a woman she otherwise despises. We would love to hear the story/cautionary tale...

July 19th, 2013 at 12:27:32 PM permalink

Evenbob

Member since: Oct 24, 2012
Threads: 146
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Quote: odiousgambit
he might be able to get her to admit she has to respect what that woman did to get support for herself and her child. .

Well, I never thought of the woman in my story as
anything other than a barracuda. I had no respect
for her at all. She made the mistake and tricked some
poor guy into paying thru the nose for it for 20 years.
And thought it was funny.

If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose.

July 19th, 2013 at 12:35:21 PM permalink
Face Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 61 Posts: 3941	Quote: aceofspades We would love to hear the story/cautionary tale... This whole thread is making me homicidal. Not really, but... Kinda =p Be bold and risk defeat, or be cautious and encourage it.

July 19th, 2013 at 12:40:10 PM permalink

Evenbob

Member since: Oct 24, 2012
Threads: 146
Posts: 25011

Quote: Face
This whole thread is making me homicidal.

Not really, but...

Kinda =p

You experienced one of these women first hand
and up close. Frightening, ain't it. Many women
are not what they seem to be at all. They're greedy
and selfish and they hide it real well. Men on the
other hand are often just what they appear to be,
easy going and forgiving. Perfect chumps for the
barracudas.

If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose.

July 19th, 2013 at 1:21:00 PM permalink

odiousgambit

Member since: Oct 28, 2012
Threads: 154
Posts: 5107

Quote: aceofspades
We would love to hear the story/cautionary tale...

That's pretty much it. Woman with dependents, supposedly on the pill, who "accidentally" got pregnant to marry someone who was well off. My wife despises her for various subsequent selfish actions, but one day lets it slip with something like " any woman has to admire how she saw to getting support for the [already existing] family"

I'm Still Standing, Yeah, Yeah, Yeah [it's an old guy chant for me]

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