Pet Peeves
February 22nd, 2022 at 3:04:50 PM permalink | |
AZDuffman Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 135 Posts: 18210 |
Frank Burns ate worms. The character was more funny when Potter showed up as Potter knew how to handle his type. The President is a fink. |
February 23rd, 2022 at 2:27:19 AM permalink | |
odiousgambit Member since: Oct 28, 2012 Threads: 154 Posts: 5105 | I am finding that I will use the female standard pronouns for a trans-woman without much of a second thought; like that recent person on Jeopardy. Or vice versa. I have always used 'they' sometimes, casually I guess, as long as I can remember, when someone else might have considered it wrong usage. I'm going to have to think about some examples. But I can say for sure that it is very jarring to hear 'they/them' used in all situations for a single person. If the person is John Smith, say, I instead will just use the first or last name instead of a pronoun. In person it seems to me there is no need for third person pronouns: "Hi, John. What are you doing? What will you be doing? I saw you were working on your project." So no problem there, am I missing something? So all this dreck is a problem for people who write about these folk? and not really a problem for me? Well, I guess if I'm talking to someone about these types and don't use the preferred pronouns, some types will be 'offended on their behalf' I guess. I hate people like that though and interact little with them. My age helps give me a pass as well. I'm Still Standing, Yeah, Yeah, Yeah [it's an old guy chant for me] |
February 23rd, 2022 at 5:58:38 AM permalink | |
SOOPOO Member since: Feb 19, 2014 Threads: 22 Posts: 4175 |
A polite waiter is talking to his assistant. The waiter does not know the names of the dozen people seated at the long table. One of the customers politely requested that he (or she) be referred to as ‘they’. Back to the waiter…. He tells his aide to bring them a glass of water. Although only one human requested water, the assistant brings a dozen glasses over…. This gets ‘they’ unhappy. ‘They’ starts causing a ruckus. Security is called and told to get ‘them’ the F out of here. Instead of just kicking out the one wacko, security kicks out all 12 customers… I could go on…. |
February 23rd, 2022 at 6:05:55 AM permalink | |
terapined Member since: Aug 6, 2014 Threads: 73 Posts: 11791 |
Much ado about nothing Security is a tough job If security deems the whole group has to go then go I could go on and on Sometimes we live no particular way but our own - Grateful Dead "Eyes of the World" |
February 23rd, 2022 at 6:22:36 AM permalink | |
SOOPOO Member since: Feb 19, 2014 Threads: 22 Posts: 4175 |
You are hurting my brain…..!!!! Resummarize….. calling a single human being ‘they’ is STUPID. |
February 23rd, 2022 at 6:37:51 AM permalink | |
terapined Member since: Aug 6, 2014 Threads: 73 Posts: 11791 |
People should be called what they request Bare in mind half my family were told to change their names when they moved to the USA Doesn't matter the names their parents picked. Americans were adamant that immigrants changed their name to something American society thought was more appropriate So my Mom went along but she was not happy Finally half way through her life, she informed everybody that she no longer wanted to be referred to a name American society was insisting on. She went back to her real name Everybody honored that request How hard is it to call somebody by a name they prefer To some people like my Mom, it was important Sometimes we live no particular way but our own - Grateful Dead "Eyes of the World" |
February 23rd, 2022 at 7:11:13 AM permalink | |
kenarman Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 14 Posts: 4515 |
I totally agree with you Mom if she/her/they/them/him didn't like her name change it. This story though has nothing to do with the discussion on pronouns. "but if you make yourselves sheep, the wolves will eat you." Benjamin Franklin |
February 23rd, 2022 at 7:12:10 AM permalink | |
SOOPOO Member since: Feb 19, 2014 Threads: 22 Posts: 4175 |
As long as your mom has a name that is singular and not plural I am happy she is happy! Just to remind you, I took care of the transgendered that we’re having their surgeries. I would NEVER refer to one of them with a pronoun that they were not comfortable with. It’s the ‘plural’ aspect that leads to misinterpretation. To my knowledge I never took care of a ‘non-binary’ individual. |
February 23rd, 2022 at 7:18:52 AM permalink | |
terapined Member since: Aug 6, 2014 Threads: 73 Posts: 11791 |
???????? It's foreign How do you yourself determine a name from another language is not plural It was hyphenated by the way Sometimes we live no particular way but our own - Grateful Dead "Eyes of the World" |
February 23rd, 2022 at 3:16:06 PM permalink | |
Gandler Member since: Aug 15, 2019 Threads: 27 Posts: 4256 |
Yeah, I think "So who is your new friend", is the best bet in any of the possible circumstances. If its a friend, you are covered, if its somebody they are romantically interested, you are covered and don't appear overbearing. I don't see how that is a cop out at all? Or if you trust your son, you could just not ask (it could just be a random schoolmate he was walking with), and if it was somebody important to him, he would probably bring it up. |