Should Trans People be allowed to use opposite sex bathrooms?

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September 11th, 2023 at 7:37:45 PM permalink
kenarman
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Quote: Gandler
I have zero trouble with reality (I posted this opinion after actually researching the alleged incident after all of these years.) I am happy to see citations for what you claim. But, almost none of that is true (or at best highly disputed.)

But, I will do one better, let's assume this post is 100% factual (it is not.)

A. Kids frequently get transferred when there is drama or conflict (justified or not), this means almost nothing.

B. Not having any idea if the alleged offender is trans is kind of a big deal when the main part of your argument is using the incident to claim how dangerous trans people are. This is like talking about "black violent crime stats" and then only citing a white serial killer as a major talking point for years.... If you are claiming that this shows how dangerous trans being are, him actually being trans or not, is literally the only thing that matters.

C. Neither of these points are relevant to the father's arrest. He was behaving improperly and did not leave the meeting when instructed. Even if his daughter was raped and murdered (she was not), he would have had to be removed from the meeting. The truth of the claim is irrelevant to his behavior at the meeting (though his story was either untrue or even being hyper generous, greatly exaggerated). And, before you say this is insensitive, go to your next city council meeting, half the people there will be there because a relative died whether by crime, improper care, or because of driving conditions or whatever, when people start screaming out of turn they get removed (and these are people who actually lost somebody.) Though the fact that the incident may have not even occurred in this case, does make a difference.

D. If he was not trans, and you shift to saying well he was a straight-cis guy, but he was using a loophole that only exists because of trans people, to stalk a girl in the bathroom is equally absurd (I have a feeling this is the next shift.) Nobody who is a serial rapist/abuser is suddenly going to stop their actions because, "well I guess I am not allowed in that room too bad....."


Is US Today an acceptable source or are still going to continue using your opinion as truth.

"WASHINGTON — Virginia Gov. Glenn Youngkin granted a pardon on Friday to a man convicted in 2021 on charges related to an incident at a school board meeting that took place after his daughter was sexually assaulted in a bathroom at her high school.

Scott Smith was charged with obstruction of justice and disorderly conduct after his confrontation in June 2021 with a community member who allegedly “threatened to spread false and malicious information” about Smith’s business “with the intent to damage his reputation,” according to the pardon."
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September 11th, 2023 at 9:06:32 PM permalink
GenoDRPh
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Quote: kenarman
Is US Today an acceptable source or are still going to continue using your opinion as truth.

"WASHINGTON — Virginia Gov. Glenn Youngkin granted a pardon on Friday to a man convicted in 2021 on charges related to an incident at a school board meeting that took place after his daughter was sexually assaulted in a bathroom at her high school.

Scott Smith was charged with obstruction of justice and disorderly conduct after his confrontation in June 2021 with a community member who allegedly “threatened to spread false and malicious information” about Smith’s business “with the intent to damage his reputation,” according to the pardon."


Thought he was charged with causing a ruckus at a school board of county commissioner meeting regarding his daughter's victimization? News reports say nothing of potentially defamatory threats to Smith's business as being a precipitating cause of his actions.

I trust nothing from Youngkin as truthful.
September 12th, 2023 at 3:55:29 AM permalink
odiousgambit
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Well, you know, back in days of yore when I was coming up we had something called "investigative reporters" who would get to the bottom of this

It's inexcusable that the facts of this matter are all in dispute. There hasn't been enough time? Wrong! This thing should have been well covered well before Youngkin pardoned this guy. I suspect the media, fearing they would make this guy a hero and hating the idea, just wanted it all to go away and in fact don't care if girls get assaulted as long as their favorite movement of the day doesn't get besmirched
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September 12th, 2023 at 4:32:32 AM permalink
rxwine
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Quote: odiousgambit
Well, you know, back in days of yore when I was coming up we had something called "investigative reporters" who would get to the bottom of this

It's inexcusable that the facts of this matter are all in dispute. There hasn't been enough time? Wrong! This thing should have been well covered well before Youngkin pardoned this guy. I suspect the media, fearing they would make this guy a hero and hating the idea, just wanted it all to go away and in fact don't care if girls get assaulted as long as their favorite movement of the day doesn't get besmirched


Favorite movement? The right blew up this whole trans issue from a few cases as their national crisis for political purposes. I guess they wanted to get our attention on the left.
You believe in an invisible god, and dismiss people who say they are trans? Really?
September 12th, 2023 at 5:51:26 AM permalink
ams288
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Quote: odiousgambit
Well, you know, back in days of yore when I was coming up we had something called "investigative reporters" who would get to the bottom of this

It's inexcusable that the facts of this matter are all in dispute. There hasn't been enough time? Wrong! This thing should have been well covered well before Youngkin pardoned this guy. I suspect the media, fearing they would make this guy a hero and hating the idea, just wanted it all to go away and in fact don't care if girls get assaulted as long as their favorite movement of the day doesn't get besmirched


Damn that pesky MSM for not being full of hateful bigots!
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September 12th, 2023 at 7:38:45 AM permalink
kenarman
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Damn that pesky MSM for not being full of hateful bigots!


You don't consider US Today MSM?
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September 12th, 2023 at 7:59:57 AM permalink
ams288
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Quote: kenarman
You don't consider US Today MSM?


I don’t really consider anything to be MSM.

Whenever I bring up the MSM, you can be sure I’m just mocking the idiots who blame all of their side’s political failings on it.
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September 12th, 2023 at 8:32:22 AM permalink
kenarman
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I don’t really consider anything to be MSM.

Whenever I bring up the MSM, you can be sure I’m just mocking the idiots who blame all of their side’s political failings on it.


Oh I think you make sense to me now no MSM, no righty independents you listen to the one true source, the voices in your head.
"but if you make yourselves sheep, the wolves will eat you." Benjamin Franklin
September 12th, 2023 at 5:14:56 PM permalink
Gandler
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Quote: kenarman
Is US Today an acceptable source or are still going to continue using your opinion as truth.

"WASHINGTON — Virginia Gov. Glenn Youngkin granted a pardon on Friday to a man convicted in 2021 on charges related to an incident at a school board meeting that took place after his daughter was sexually assaulted in a bathroom at her high school.

Scott Smith was charged with obstruction of justice and disorderly conduct after his confrontation in June 2021 with a community member who allegedly “threatened to spread false and malicious information” about Smith’s business “with the intent to damage his reputation,” according to the pardon."


https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/politics/2023/09/11/glenn-youngkin-pardon-scott-smith/70821236007/

I am not sure how this changes anything? It is basically another rephrasing of what we spoke about? This article does not even go into detail of if the alleged rapist was trans (other than mentioning that there was a rumor the offender was wearing a skirt at some point.)

I would be very interested if this body cam footage gets released. Because I guarantee this "unreasonable detainment by Law Enforcement" will turn out to be quite reasonable (and quite mild compared to what we often see.)

I can virtually guarantee three things assuming the body cam footage gets released and the criminal reports get released:
1. His arrest was justified.
2. Whatever happened or did not happen to his daughter has zero relevance to trans issues. (and the kid was not trans.)
3. Sexual Abuse probably remains very common in High Schools, and almost all of it is perpetrated by straight cis men (and to a lesser degree straight women), and even if you were to magically vanish all trans overnight, this will not effect the abuse rates at all. Trans people sexually abusing people is such a rare concept (even when it legitimately happens and is not just amplified through rumor mills and shoddy coverage based on some offhand comment that a dude -who is clearly not trans- possibly wore a skirt at some point....) that it is a statistical nonissue. Even looking through history of women raped in bathrooms, can anyone find a trans offender? They are virtually all stalking cases of some creepy straight guy following a women into a secluded bathroom (where the bathroom is just an incidental location with privacy.)
September 13th, 2023 at 4:39:28 AM permalink
odiousgambit
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Quote: Gandler

2. Whatever happened or did not happen to his daughter has zero relevance to trans issues.
Unless the kid got access to the bathroom [I think it was] because you can't say no to someone who claims to be transgender

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(and the kid was not trans.)
Probably not, just claimed to be, that's the point

and I ask again, where were the investigative reporters who, by now, should have settled all these unknowns?
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