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Man. This dating discussion is really eye opening.

Being straight must really suck.

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Man. This dating discussion is really eye opening.

Being straight must really suck.

Why?

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Why?

Because you all have to work so hard just to find someone who isn’t crazy or manipulating who will even consider going on a first date.

Meanwhile, I went to the movies (by myself!) last night and this morning I get a message on one of the “gay dating apps” from some guy I’ve never seen before saying he saw me at the movies last night, thought I looked “fine as hell” (his actual words), and he wants me to bang his brains out.

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Being straight must really suck.

Can confirm. Those asexuals got it figgered oot.

I don't get it either, and am probably the last person to ask. IMO ace's perhaps biggest problem is time. I feel I can sort of empathize, as while I don't have an all-day odd job like he, I refuse to be where people are and so have about the same opportunities as he. Not many women in the swamp, and every relationship I've had came by way of work or school. If I held the same job for more than 5yrs, or held a professional job full of elders who've already made it as he does, I'd prolly be pretty singular as well.

I'd drop that MGTOW s#$%, though. While perhaps starting as pro-individualism, it like most things has reached the lowest common denominator. "Men Getting Triggered Over Women" is pretty much its current reputation, and you'd do well to separate.

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I'd drop that MGTOW s#$%, though. While perhaps starting as pro-individualism, it like most things has reached the lowest common denominator. "Men Getting Triggered Over Women" is pretty much its current reputation, and you'd do well to separate.

Its got its problems, but it is not like there are meetings or anything. Just a philosophy. A way to say you do not care about finding a woman and no, you are not gay or something. Just want no part of it all.

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Can confirm. Those asexuals got it figgered oot.

I don't get it either, and am probably the last person to ask. IMO ace's perhaps biggest problem is time. I feel I can sort of empathize, as while I don't have an all-day odd job like he, I refuse to be where people are and so have about the same opportunities as he. Not many women in the swamp, and every relationship I've had came by way of work or school. If I held the same job for more than 5yrs, or held a professional job full of elders who've already made it as he does, I'd prolly be pretty singular as well.

I'd drop that MGTOW s#$%, though. While perhaps starting as pro-individualism, it like most things has reached the lowest common denominator. "Men Getting Triggered Over Women" is pretty much its current reputation, and you'd do well to separate.

If you read this thread, you would now know I have plenty of time but lack funds

I think the biggest obstacle is finding out what you really want. And be passionate about that. We are all giving off signals [advertising] whether intentional or not.

I've never been a joiner of groups, didn't want to be subject to rules. What is it we want? Are you looking for sex, or companionship, or someone that actually cares? Because that last one, well, I probably don't have to tell you how that caring looked obvious in the beginning when couples couldn't get enough of each other.

It takes two years to really know someone. Everyone starts out putting their best foot forward and wearing their game face. People should live together for at least two years before signing any marriage agreement. And then they need a darn good reason like having kids or something that earth shattering. Until then, just be happy.

Find your passion.

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Man. This dating discussion is really eye opening.

Being straight must really suck.

Bad love is worse than no love.

Don't let yourself be oblivious to the perils of old age.

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Bad love is worse than no love.

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Because you all have to work so hard just to find someone who isn’t crazy or manipulating

All most Gays want is sex, so
that makes dating extremely
easy. How many times on the
other board did you say "So
many men, so little time." I
remember at least a couple.