Was Jesus God?
June 22nd, 2016 at 2:04:44 PM permalink | |
Evenbob Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 146 Posts: 25013 |
So you admit that's what the Church needs, the guilty and the shamed. I had sex out of wedlock plenty of times and guilt about it never even occurred to me. Never, not once. In fact, it's ludicrous. What's there to feel guilty about. If somebody had tried to guilt and shame me, if it was a guy I would probably have punched him in the face for sticking his nose in my business. Guilt and shame are pointless emotions, they are for children who don't know any better.
If I wronged somebody, would I ask for their forgiveness? I have no idea, I try not to do that. I never had sex with married women because I didn't want to put the husband in that position. I try not to do things that would require someone to forgive me. Don't you?
Who? There is no such thing. Guilt and shame make you unhappy, so try not to do things that make you feel guilt and shame. Monitor what you do, live within your moral code. It's really all there is to it. If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose. |
June 22nd, 2016 at 4:28:09 PM permalink | |
Nareed Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 346 Posts: 12545 |
Logically, then, one ought to sin as much as possible, in order to be forgiven and experience this greatest feeling often. As they said in old, campy SF movies "Does not compute."
Ah, I get it. "You seem rather happy." "Shouldn't I be." "After all, I broke one of your laws." "What do you think they're there for? There's no way to rule innocent men. The only power any government has is to crack down on criminals. Well, when there aren't enough criminals, one makes them. One declares so many things to be a crime that it becomes impossible for men to live without breaking laws. Who wants a nation of law-abiding citizens? What's there in that for anyone? But just pass the kinds of laws that can neither be observed nor enforced nor objectively interpreted—and you create a nation of lawbreakers—and then you cash in on guilt. Now that's the system, Mr. Rearden, that's the game, and once you understand it, you'll be much easier to deal with." Donald Trump is a one-term LOSER |
June 22nd, 2016 at 10:05:07 PM permalink | |
FrGamble Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 67 Posts: 7596 | Bob, the Church is all about the elimination of guilt and /or shame. That's the goal and the end result. A happy, joyful, free, holy, kind, and loving people who evangelize the world in how they live and pray. I don't know where you get this strange idea that any Church or religion would be about making people feel bad. Your example about pre-marital sex is telling. First that you would react by punching someone is a clear indication that you aren't as conscience free as you think you are. Secondly, the reason you don't feel guilt or shame is because you aren't really thinking about it. You've let society brainwash you. A moment's thought and you would realize you used someone for your own pleasure, risked an unwanted pregnancy, STDs, and maybe most importantly messed with both your emotions and hers. If you just used your big head instead of your small one it's pretty obvious premarital sex is not a smart thing to do. I like your advice try not to do things that make you feel guilt and shame. That shows me that you do recognize there are actions that do cause you guilt and shame. Those things would be sin, by the way, glad we could finally clear that up. You say that we should just live in our own moral code, good idea. My point is that we cannot even do this!?! I'm sure you have your own moral code and I'm just as sure you have broken it. This is the reality and proof of original sin. “It is with the smallest brushes that the artist paints the most exquisitely beautiful pictures.” ( |
June 22nd, 2016 at 10:07:14 PM permalink | |
FrGamble Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 67 Posts: 7596 |
Ah ah, now you are thinking like St. Paul who asks this very question in his letter to the Romans. “It is with the smallest brushes that the artist paints the most exquisitely beautiful pictures.” ( |
June 23rd, 2016 at 1:19:50 AM permalink | |
Evenbob Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 146 Posts: 25013 |
Really? Are you joking?
And she used me, duh. And sorry to disappoint you, but protection was always used and some knowledge of sexual history. You act like I was a monkey, just sticking it in whenever I found a warm place. Is that really how the Church views sex? You think we're all clueless idiots?
Duh, ya think? This is really very insulting. It shows you I know what causes guilt and shame?? Why the hell wouldn't I, I grew up in the same culture you did. I had the same experiences, watched the same TV shows, read the same books in school. You're somewhat of what we used to call a pompous ass, aren't you. You have a very elevated opinion of yourself as the moral arbiter of everybody else. Get over it, padre, you have the same stink attached to you that the rest of us has. And there's no god to save you from that.. If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose. |
June 23rd, 2016 at 8:31:22 AM permalink | |
Nareed Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 346 Posts: 12545 |
I suppose he then found some pretzel-logic sophistry with which to undo the "greatest feeling" bit. IN the end it all comes down to the Futurama joke "It's free shipping that you pay for!" Donald Trump is a one-term LOSER |
June 23rd, 2016 at 9:39:59 PM permalink | |
FrGamble Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 67 Posts: 7596 | Yep, I'm in need of a savior too and thank God for both of us that He is very real. “It is with the smallest brushes that the artist paints the most exquisitely beautiful pictures.” ( |
June 24th, 2016 at 12:28:33 PM permalink | |
Evenbob Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 146 Posts: 25013 |
Only because you're too scared to live as an adult and make your own decisions. If you're past the age of 12 and still need a daddy figure to give you constant approval, even a mythical daddy figure, you have a big problem. Learn to think for yourself, it's well worth the effort. If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose. |
August 2nd, 2016 at 2:28:36 PM permalink | |
Evenbob Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 146 Posts: 25013 | I just cringe when I hear the ad on TV that says god's love is unconditional, he loves everybody the same. "Any cursory reading of the Bible shows that God’s love is ALWAYS conditional.. It is clear from Genesis 6-8 that God’s love was NOT unconditional, and no matter where a person reads in the Bible, they are going to find that God’s love is conditional. If the Bible is anything, it is the written record of God’s wrath, vengeance, and hate towards those who do not accept and act on the conditions he gives them. The gospel message of the Bible is this, Do THIS and thou shalt live. Either we do things God’s way or he makes us pay." That's an ex Christian minister writing the above. He knows there are conditions for his god's love, I wish the Church would quit saying there aren't any. http://www.patheos.com/blogs/nolongerquivering/2014/01/does-god-love-us-unconditionally/ If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose. |
August 3rd, 2016 at 8:48:57 AM permalink | |
FrGamble Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 67 Posts: 7596 | Oh Bob, you are so very confused about what love is. God's love is unconditional but reality is not. If you do things that are wrong there will be punishment, this is just a fact. However, no matter what you have done wrong and no matter what punishment you must endure because of it God will still love you and forgive you. Love doesn't somehow save us from the reality of our actions but it does remain faithful to us and supports us through them. In all the stories of the Old Testament God's "wrath" as you call it is easily avoidable and God pleads through the prophets and through the hearts of mankind for them to avoid the sin. You also, at least from a Christian perspective, must mention that the Old Testament is not the end of the story. The New Testament shows God Himself taking our punishment for our mistakes. This is unconditional love at its height. You still will hurt yourself and others if you do wrong but the guilt of sin has been forgiven and the possibility of ultimate happiness is always unconditionally open to us. “It is with the smallest brushes that the artist paints the most exquisitely beautiful pictures.” ( |